MY TRUTH OR THE TRUTH?

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My Truth or The Truth?

This is a conundrum as both are equally valid and yet can be at complete ends of the spectrum to each other. Neither right or wrong and both right and wrong in this world of duality.

Let’s take a look at “My Truth”. This truth comes from our personal experiences and training…. but eventually that truth changes over time, like when we outgrow a habit and discover a more effective means of carrying it out. A simple example of how time changes personal truth is… “When I was 5 years old I truthfully wore a size 5 shoe… now I am much older my shoe size is truthfully a 7.” This truth as is a fact of physical growth.

However, personal truth can have attached to it… VERY IMPORTANT qualifications… an emotional fact from our personal experiences… like.. “All Scorpios do me in!” Then we set up the experiences to validate those truths more so… the next time we come across a ‘Scorpio’ we already know or assume that they will do us in… this means we have become set in our truth. No changes can occur until we change our perspective on this emotional fact or truth. We don’t give the ‘Scorpio’ a chance to be their loving selves… we attract what we think or fear. We have placed ourselves in our own jail; along with the ‘Scorpio’ present.

Or “I don’t like a certain type of culture or food.” .. So when we visit that country we really have a hard time being involved in any fun there or when we eat that food we will have allergic reactions or arguments with our partner… a drama will ensue, instead of a full loving experience.

Our thoughts and emotions attract our experiences… not the other way around. When our ‘TRUTHS’ are set in cement, nothing flows, nothing changes, nothing grows.. and that’s what wars are created from, when the personalities forget that no thing has the complete truth and there is truth in all things.

These types of personal truths are really not truths but emotions that are caught up with ‘ideas’ or ‘concepts’ which continue to shape our experiences and usually not so nice experiences as we play them out. All of this can change at any time. One just needs to question oneself on the real NOW validity of these thoughts and emotions and change them to more realistic ones that suit us today. It’s like taking a stock-take on ME now and getting rid of the old stock and replacing it with new state of the art stock.

Then we have “The Truth”… There is really no real one truth as we are all living in a changing world. Yes there are the rules and laws of the universe, like the sun rises daily and gravity. These truths have no emotional charge.. they just are.

Mainly truths that are written or documented change over time as science, culture or religion either adds to the information or discovers a deeper understanding. Not too far back in history it was heresy to think or speak about the world being round! Darwin’s theories are being disproved in many ways; Fashion comes and goes; Religions change their rules and dogma; International, interracial and gay marriages are acceptable now. All of these truths have changed as our cultures become more relaxed about personal rights and lifestyles.

So truth is a changing subject, depending on time, discovery, co-operation and understanding.

My personal truth is based on how I feel, not my emotions (what I’ve been taught to feel). This is what I cultivate and it is based on love. When I question a concept, thought or situation that is ‘nagging’ me, I ask myself. “Where is the love here?” “Am I coming from a love stance?” “Who am I without my story?”

Then I take a deep breath and let it all go. I have my freedom internally back again… I return to my love… I am in my feelings again… I am in the right place at the right time for me… that is my truth.

Sharna 

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IMPEL

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Spiritual Theme of the Month for December, 2011.

IMPEL

By Francisco David Coll

Freeing myself is true liberation.  No one can do this for me.   Anytime I feel captive, restricted or dependent, I need to return to the basics:  I am a soul with a physical body, not a physical body with a soul;  I am intelligent light; I am energy.  I came here to learn and grow. I learn and grow through involvement and experience.

I have a unique purpose and Thrust. It is unique because I am the sum total of all my thoughts and feelings throughout eternity.  I have a master team of Spiritual Helpers here to guide me in my spiritual growth.  They are here to work with me, not to work for me. I am free.  I am free to experience great challenges, blocks and stepping-stones that seem overwhelming, just as I am free to succeed. That is freedom.  Once this truly becomes a part of my understanding, I will become more conscious of the real me.  I will live the Soul Consciousness.  I will live life.

What I have inside is Perfect. There is no place for doubt. I do not need to get wrapped up or caught up in perfection.  This will only dilute my inner motivation and incentive. Just as the Universe and Nature are perfect, so am I.  “Perfection” is in the bliss, the challenges, and the ups and downs of my life.  It is in the process and flow of life; the journey.  I do not need to concern myself with perfection. I am already perfect.

My opportunity is simply to do the best I know how and learn and grow from it. That is why my desires-my true desires-are so important. My inner desires and needs are my intelligent design.  The moment I feel them, I am in the process of creating them. Inside me exists the power and potential of lifetimes, and the energy and wisdom of the Universe.  I even have a whole team of Spiritual Helpers I can check and recheck with.  All I need to do is focus on what I need and want and get involved.

There is an inner desire that I have … an inner drive. It truly comes from inside and not outside.  This inner desire is in harmony and in tune with the Universe.  It helps me with my niche.  It is associated with the power of Will.  It is not an outer push but rather a natural flow, like water traveling downhill.  If I get caught up or controlled by outer things my inner desire can seem like a whisper or gentle breeze that is easily ignored and replaced.  This is because I have trained myself to jump when there are outer demands.  I let the emotions and my thoughts bully my true feelings.  It means I have put too much focus and priority on outer motivation and things.

As a soul I need Drive in my life, but when I allow my energy to get out of balance I confuse drive with “forcing” or “pressure.”  I may even wait to be told what to do.  By doing this, I lower my inner standards and create excuses. This is a lazy path, and I take it when I am afraid or doubt the solutions, energy and leadership I have inside.

There is no “free lunch.”  That is a Spiritual truth.  This does not however mean that my needs and wants are difficult to achieve.  It simply means that I must be willing to put forth energy so that I may receive energy.  This is natural when I’m being me and enjoying life.  It is innate.  As a matter of fact, I claim the challenge. I want opportunity. The Real Me is decisive, bold and spirited; taking action and being fully committed, like a deep flowing river.  It is enjoying and balancing my two worlds.  As long as I am crystal clear in what I can take with me, I can enjoy and be involved in anything I feel I need or want.  When I consistently do this I understand what it means to move by desire; I freely accomplish the fulfillment of my goals.

I lead with my heart. It shows the way. I organize with my head, so I don’t go astray. I follow-through with action.  That is the accomplishment and fulfillment that feels like play.  This is the simplicity and power of what I am – Feel, Think, Act.

Fulfilling my true inner urge is effortless.  I do not have to force things.  My energy has force, but I am not about forcing myself, people or things.  I have drive, but it is not about being a slave driver.  I have true concern, but it does not mean that I pity or cater to myself, people or things.  I am gentle, but it does not mean that I waste time.  Every moment I am drawn toward what I need to be doing.  It is not harsh or difficult.  That is part of what distinguishes it from an outer urge.  It comes from my core.

The heart wants what the heart wants.  I remind myself that “I have no limitations” and that “everything is going to be alright.”  I move forward and I work from this pivot. There is nothing that can or will stop me.  I am free to experience and feel. Setting my own goals based on what I truly feel I need is first. Giving myself plenty of time to accomplish is second.  Discerning the places I need to be is third. Knowing the reason and feeling the success as I progress is fourth. The rest is just follow-through.

 That is IMPEL – The Way of the Wayshower.

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RELEASE THE NEW YOU

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RELEASE THE NEW YOU!


For some, “Release” is another one of those words that conjures up a negative response internally… an emotion of ‘missing it’, ‘letting go’, ‘not having’, ‘it’s not fair’, a form of fear… of someone or something that is natural or added to the state of life one is used to, will not be there any more.


Definitely, ‘release’ requires courage to change, sometimes it is a forced change, to allow the universe to re-fill what we assume is the space that is now there because we’ve emptied or cleared it.


To understand how your template for ‘release’ affects you,

Close your eyes…

Look back to the freeing of a hurt animal or bird you had in your care…

Look back to the first day your child went to school…

Remember how you felt when you sold your first home…

Remember back to when you buried a close family member…

Recall how you felt when you separated from your first true love…

Recall how you felt when you had some treasure stolen from you…


If you have not experienced any of these life milestones, imagine one or recall how your parents worked their way through loss and grief in their lives… this is your template – it can however be re-programmed.

Jot down those emotions, thoughts and excuses that have been stimulated. We will work with them below. Now take a deep breath in through the nose and out the mouth and one more… and one more.

There are many idioms that describe that emptiness or loss and or desire of not having a particular need, want or person in your life. Support programs take people through grief counselling; the Medical association issues medication; Friends and Family re-act differently, often tip-toeing around you or more often staying away, but surprisingly there are a few that just hug you and let you be in your grief… there is help around you to help you through and over this ‘release’ or ‘loss’.


The new age movement has at it’s disposal all sorts of techniques to manifest your future self into being. There is not  however, a primary understanding that to receive or change, one needs to give… and many grapple at why those techniques of manifestation do not work for them. The hankering after a desire is not the key… the daily affirmation is not the key… the visualization boards is not the key… These are only steps in the procedure of acquiring a goal, changing a state of being, creating a new you. It is not the beginning step.

Release is the key.

Now to understand the positive side of ‘Release’ in your template,

Close your eyes….

Recall what if feels like to experience or witness the birth of new life…

Recall what if feels like after you have cleaned out all your cupboards…

Look back to what it feels like to move into a brand new home or drive a brand new car…

Look back to what it feels like to be at your own or your child’s graduation…

Remember what it feels like to be addiction free… (drugs, alcohol, gambling, smoking, credit cards, food, sugar, sex, things, people etc.)

Remember what it feels like to swim naked…


All of the above events are the ‘joy’ of being unencumbered with ‘hanging onto the past’ you, your concepts or others. They are a result of letting go and releasing so you can accept or be. The struggle that is sometimes associated with acquiring these milestones are also the depth of your template surrounding the word ‘Release’.


Jot down those emotions, thoughts and excuses that were stimulated with the positive side of ‘release’. We will work with them below. Now take a deep breath in through the nose and out the mouth and one more… and one more.

The ‘struggle’ symptoms that are often associated with acquiring new goals and events are also part of your old template, part of your old conditioning that you have underlying your ability to receive all.


What would it be like for you to be able to receive without all of the baggage and past conditioning which makes up the struggle or even total denial of receiving your desires? The emotions, thoughts and excuses are the beginning…. they are what is stopping you. This is what you need to ‘release’. By giving up these, you make room for miracles to happen. This is true giving to receive… You are giving yourself space. You are creating a new you. You are re-programming what you want, not what your past template, that does not work, wants.


Homework time:

Take that list of emotions, thoughts and excuses.

Read them all out aloud.

Feel what that is.

Now read out the first statement.

Ask yourself…

What is the worst thing that could happen if I didn’t think this way?

Is there another way of thinking about this?

What would I gain if I didn’t think this way?

Whom is actually gaining out of this way of thinking?

Could I give myself permission to change this way of thinking?

What would I like to think about this instead?

Write down your new way of thinking…..


Do all the emotions, thoughts and excuses… one at a time so you create a list of your new way of thinking. This new way of thinking is now your daily affirmations. Read it daily.

To change a habit, it takes 15days.

To change a lifetime it takes 30days.


There will be obvious signs in your environment that change is happening.

Your desires will manifest as the Universe Always Says YES!

RELEASE THE NEW YOU!

 


Sharna

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SERENITY

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Theme of The Month, June, 2011

SERENITY

Yesterday is gone.  Tomorrow does not exist yet.  There is only today . . . there is only the now.  These are the facts that bring clarity into my life.  A clarity that grows and expands from learning from the past, planning for the future, but still living and building today.  That stillness fills me when I know I have this moment.  When I know I have life in this breath.  It gives me great powers to fulfill my needs and accomplish my aspirations.  It frees me to be obedient to my true-feelings, to be militant and organized in my thoughts, and to be in harmony with my actions.  It simply means I am at peace in all waters and I show the way.  That is what living this moment is all about.  That is what it feels like to flow in the middle of the river.  It is ecstasy for the whole of life.

I live in two worlds at once, knowing that is part of knowing my big picture.  It is also knowing that I know that I know everything is going to be all right, in spite of the challenges and stepping stones in life.  It is in trying to re-live the past or trying to live in the future that I create or allow agitation in my water.  It is not my business to relive the past.  It is not my business to live in the future.  It is my business to do the very best I know how and Master My Energy.  When I am consistent in minding my business there is a calm that fills me and everything I am a part of.  It allows me to accomplish more with less effort.  It allows me to move fast by staying smooth first.

I have come to this higher school of learning to continue in my spiritual growth and expansion.  These are my “basics” and the foundation of why am here.  Part of the basics also is recognizing I have needs and wants.  My needs are basically spiritual and my physical survival.  Everything else is a want, but it’s okay to like my wants!  Part of why I am here is to experience the achievement of them.  Where I get into trouble is when I allow my needs and wants to get confused. I can invite more troubles and confusion by accepting other people’s fears about their needs and wants.  I have all the energy and backing of the Universe to do what I come to do, but there are limits to my energy when I try to learn what others come to experience.  Accepting other people’s fears is trying to live someone else’s destiny; it is perfect for them but it will not be for me.

To be still, peaceful and quiet inside does not mean doing nothing.  As a matter of fact, as a Wayshower, I am here to be involved in my life 100%!  There are some things that I am a part of over which I have little control.  How I work with them however is completely up to me.  It is truly about decision.  When I decide to be consistent with the good, kind, loving, sharing part of me I will have greater happiness, success and abundance.  It is up to me to be calm, cool and collected in my actions when there is combative energy around me. It is up to me to be at peace when people are experiencing turmoil around me.  It is up to me to be sure of my direction when there is uncertainty floating around me.  The clearer I am about my decision to be me, the easer it becomes to fulfill my purpose.  The easer it is to just be.

There is a strong sailing ship moving through the sea.  It travels from port to port being of service.  Some of the journeys are longer than others but the voyage is always clear.  Some of the waters are stormy but always passable.  This ship stays true because the captain trusts its compass, his team and the stars.  This ship was designed for its ventures and will never be lost.  It is in its ventures and service that the name “Serenity” becomes known.  I AM the captain of that ship.

by Francisco D. Coll

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Overview of 2010

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2010 Themes of the Month in Review

We began the year in the theme of Embracing Delight and ended in Harvesting through Expansion.

Here are the keywords for each month and an excerpt of that month’s sharing by Francisco David Coll.

Accepting
– January
I am energy. I am a Soul. And as a Soul I move by desire. My needs are to grow and expand.

Connection – February
Connection means energy with purpose.  And when I free myself to flow smoothly, I have the power of all things because I am one with my needs and aspirations, and that is real connection.

Simplification – March
Simplification is not about what is simple; Simplification is the action of creating and Keeping It Simple Spiritual.  Simplification is my willingness, evolvement and declaration to be in the flow of spirit and abundance.

Orbit Stickman 2Sovereignty – April
My sovereignty gives me the peace that passes understanding. I empower myself and everything by my clear inner decisions. It is my inner decisions that create the bridge for the miracles of life to manifest. This is but a tiny piece of my sovereignty.

Contentment – May
Everything I have done has brought me to this place and time.  I am a creator.  Now with contentment, I will set my energy and move forward into my greatest works.  I can be assertive or gentle, loud or quiet, serious or playful; I am willing to do what is needed in order to fulfill my needs and aspirations.  I can fulfill many roles, wear many uniforms, and go many places. But no matter what it is always me . . . and always with direction and with contentment.

ChartCatalyst – June
Being a catalyst does not mean I treat everyone the same.  It means I am the same with everyone.  It is simply accepting the wisdom and energy that is mine and is being offered to me, and then passing it on.   Fulfilling my thrust and purpose is being the catalyst of my time.

Encompass – July
It is about being right even when I am wrong and knowing I am free and that I have free will to do what I need to do when I need to do it.  It is knowing that I can do it, and that everything is going to be all right.  Encompass is simply living my life 100%.  Encompass is fulfilling everything in this moment.

Recognize – August
What is me and what is not me?  This is an important question to stay vigilant about.  When I recall the simplicity of why I am here I stop indulging in thoughts and emotions that are a waste of time.  Because I know who I am and why I am here, I can easily and quickly discern my business, my service and my timing.

Back – September
My life is simple and has great ease.  I do not need to complicate it.  I am imbued with a powerful intellect to help me fulfill what I feel into realized success.  I do not need to get involved in why something cannot be done, I am part of making it get done.  It is said we are “Part of the Solution, or the Pollution.”  My eye is single … I am part of the solution, I am the solution.  My Guidance backs me.  The Universe backs me.  I back me.  That is what it means to be a builder and a creator.

3 profilesRelease – October
It is simply giving myself permission.  I give myself permission to be Happy.  I give myself permission to be Successful.  I give myself permission to be Abundant.  It all happens by making that decision.  It happens when I allow it to happen.  Every time I breathe in I am accepting abundance.  Every time I breathe out I am sharing abundance.  Breathe in, breathe out.  In, out.  Accept and release.  Fulfill and accomplish.  Breathe in, breathe out.

All – November
I am a part of all things.  There is no separation.  There is not one thing on the planet or in the Universe that I do not already have.  I am one with all things.  I do not need to run from “it.”  I do not need to fight for “it.” I do not need to strive for “it.”  I am it.

Bliss – December
I am a free agent in the universe who chose to be here and have this opportunity.  I am jumping for joy to be here because I am in-love with life.  All the things I know and all the things I am have led me to this moment.  Today is the first day of the rest of my life and I am reborn daily to learn and grow.  There is no greater opportunity than the one that I am a part of now.  Bliss is doing the best I know how, learning from experience and fulfilling my opportunity the way I came to fulfill it.  Bliss is not a place.  Bliss is a way-of-life that comes from freeing myself inside.
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Bliss

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Theme of the Month, December, 2010

BLISS

I have all the love I need.  I have all the happiness I need. I have all the joy, fun and enthusiasm to impel my super service … for myself and others.  I do not need anything outside of myself to be whole.  Life is a grand opportunity and is all here for me.  Life is just a game. It is an important game and one that I am faced with.  But I need to remember that it is all a means to an end.  Heaven isn’t something outside of me, it is within me.  I am all the joy, all the love and all the happiness that exist.  The better I tune myself into my purpose and opportunity, the better I do my greatest works in the beautiful now.

Happiness is a good indicator of where I am.  I can be happy all the time! As a matter of fact, if I am not happy something is wrong.  The greater I understand the spiritual needs of Accomplishment with Fulfillment the easier it is to be in my purpose.   I need to remember how natural it is to be affluent.  Without loyalty to those needs I will not be aware of my Spiritual Alarms telling me I am suffering.  Suffering is an idea.  If I believe I am supposed to suffer or think it is “part of the process” then I will find a way to suffer.  If I live with it long enough I will make it a habit.  If I play out the habit consistently I will make it a syndrome.  That is when suffering becomes a way of life, but there is no need for that.  Nothing in the universe functions by suffering.  Remembering who I am, where I came from and where I am going will return me to my child-like part.  It returns me to the real me.

Respect is one of my inner codes as a Wayshower.  Respect gives continuity to my delight for life. When I avoid respect I become blind to Value.  Respect allows me to accept all things and myself where they are.  When I refuse to accept people for where they are, or feel sorry for them, I open the door for stealing.  Stealing opportunity.  I create a game of greater and lesser.  It means I see myself as greater and lesser and live out that vibration.  A vibration of judging and comparing.  Lack of acceptance is resisting the universal energy that flows through me. The more I love myself the more I will love people. That is how I am truly being of service.

There is a difference between empathizing and sympathizing, evaluating and judging, freeing and saving. As a soul with a physical body I need to be crystal clear about the facts: “there are no greater or lesser souls in the universe, only souls at different states of consciousness.” It has taken a great deal of energy and time to create what I have now.  Regardless of the good or not-so-good that I have experienced, it is all priceless.  It is not my job to change people.  I am here to fulfill my purpose, be an example and share a helping hand to those I can be of service to.   I am not here to save anyone because no one is lost – just as there is no need to ever feel sorry for myself.

Love.  Love is not something I get.  Love is what I am.  Love is what holds my body together and what the Universe is made of.  Love is energy.  I am love and I express it through True-Concern.  The peace that passes understanding is being in love.  It is me, me being it and me being in it.  I am in the right place at the right time to fulfill my purpose.  I have all the backing I need.  I am consistently creating the heaven I have inside.  But, I will only progress as far as my concepts will allow.  When I feel any Lack I simply ask myself … when is heaven not enough?  What game am I playing?  Am I committed to myself, and how do I best unfold all the love I have inside?  What do I need to let go of to be me all the time?  By staying regrouped I live life in Soul Consciousness.

I am a free agent in the universe who chose to be here and have this opportunity. I am jumping for joy to be here because I am in-love with life.  All the things I know and all the things I am have led me to this moment.  Today is the first day of the rest of my life and I am reborn daily to learn and grow.  There is no greater opportunity than the one that I am a part of now.  Bliss is doing the best I know how, learning from experience and fulfilling my opportunity the way I came to fulfill it.  Bliss is not a place.  Bliss is a way-of-life that comes from freeing myself inside.

by Francisco D. Coll

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