MY TRUTH OR THE TRUTH?

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My Truth or The Truth?

This is a conundrum as both are equally valid and yet can be at complete ends of the spectrum to each other. Neither right or wrong and both right and wrong in this world of duality.

Let’s take a look at “My Truth”. This truth comes from our personal experiences and training…. but eventually that truth changes over time, like when we outgrow a habit and discover a more effective means of carrying it out. A simple example of how time changes personal truth is… “When I was 5 years old I truthfully wore a size 5 shoe… now I am much older my shoe size is truthfully a 7.” This truth as is a fact of physical growth.

However, personal truth can have attached to it… VERY IMPORTANT qualifications… an emotional fact from our personal experiences… like.. “All Scorpios do me in!” Then we set up the experiences to validate those truths more so… the next time we come across a ‘Scorpio’ we already know or assume that they will do us in… this means we have become set in our truth. No changes can occur until we change our perspective on this emotional fact or truth. We don’t give the ‘Scorpio’ a chance to be their loving selves… we attract what we think or fear. We have placed ourselves in our own jail; along with the ‘Scorpio’ present.

Or “I don’t like a certain type of culture or food.” .. So when we visit that country we really have a hard time being involved in any fun there or when we eat that food we will have allergic reactions or arguments with our partner… a drama will ensue, instead of a full loving experience.

Our thoughts and emotions attract our experiences… not the other way around. When our ‘TRUTHS’ are set in cement, nothing flows, nothing changes, nothing grows.. and that’s what wars are created from, when the personalities forget that no thing has the complete truth and there is truth in all things.

These types of personal truths are really not truths but emotions that are caught up with ‘ideas’ or ‘concepts’ which continue to shape our experiences and usually not so nice experiences as we play them out. All of this can change at any time. One just needs to question oneself on the real NOW validity of these thoughts and emotions and change them to more realistic ones that suit us today. It’s like taking a stock-take on ME now and getting rid of the old stock and replacing it with new state of the art stock.

Then we have “The Truth”… There is really no real one truth as we are all living in a changing world. Yes there are the rules and laws of the universe, like the sun rises daily and gravity. These truths have no emotional charge.. they just are.

Mainly truths that are written or documented change over time as science, culture or religion either adds to the information or discovers a deeper understanding. Not too far back in history it was heresy to think or speak about the world being round! Darwin’s theories are being disproved in many ways; Fashion comes and goes; Religions change their rules and dogma; International, interracial and gay marriages are acceptable now. All of these truths have changed as our cultures become more relaxed about personal rights and lifestyles.

So truth is a changing subject, depending on time, discovery, co-operation and understanding.

My personal truth is based on how I feel, not my emotions (what I’ve been taught to feel). This is what I cultivate and it is based on love. When I question a concept, thought or situation that is ‘nagging’ me, I ask myself. “Where is the love here?” “Am I coming from a love stance?” “Who am I without my story?”

Then I take a deep breath and let it all go. I have my freedom internally back again… I return to my love… I am in my feelings again… I am in the right place at the right time for me… that is my truth.

Sharna 

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RELEASE THE NEW YOU

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RELEASE THE NEW YOU!


For some, “Release” is another one of those words that conjures up a negative response internally… an emotion of ‘missing it’, ‘letting go’, ‘not having’, ‘it’s not fair’, a form of fear… of someone or something that is natural or added to the state of life one is used to, will not be there any more.


Definitely, ‘release’ requires courage to change, sometimes it is a forced change, to allow the universe to re-fill what we assume is the space that is now there because we’ve emptied or cleared it.


To understand how your template for ‘release’ affects you,

Close your eyes…

Look back to the freeing of a hurt animal or bird you had in your care…

Look back to the first day your child went to school…

Remember how you felt when you sold your first home…

Remember back to when you buried a close family member…

Recall how you felt when you separated from your first true love…

Recall how you felt when you had some treasure stolen from you…


If you have not experienced any of these life milestones, imagine one or recall how your parents worked their way through loss and grief in their lives… this is your template – it can however be re-programmed.

Jot down those emotions, thoughts and excuses that have been stimulated. We will work with them below. Now take a deep breath in through the nose and out the mouth and one more… and one more.

There are many idioms that describe that emptiness or loss and or desire of not having a particular need, want or person in your life. Support programs take people through grief counselling; the Medical association issues medication; Friends and Family re-act differently, often tip-toeing around you or more often staying away, but surprisingly there are a few that just hug you and let you be in your grief… there is help around you to help you through and over this ‘release’ or ‘loss’.


The new age movement has at it’s disposal all sorts of techniques to manifest your future self into being. There is not  however, a primary understanding that to receive or change, one needs to give… and many grapple at why those techniques of manifestation do not work for them. The hankering after a desire is not the key… the daily affirmation is not the key… the visualization boards is not the key… These are only steps in the procedure of acquiring a goal, changing a state of being, creating a new you. It is not the beginning step.

Release is the key.

Now to understand the positive side of ‘Release’ in your template,

Close your eyes….

Recall what if feels like to experience or witness the birth of new life…

Recall what if feels like after you have cleaned out all your cupboards…

Look back to what it feels like to move into a brand new home or drive a brand new car…

Look back to what it feels like to be at your own or your child’s graduation…

Remember what it feels like to be addiction free… (drugs, alcohol, gambling, smoking, credit cards, food, sugar, sex, things, people etc.)

Remember what it feels like to swim naked…


All of the above events are the ‘joy’ of being unencumbered with ‘hanging onto the past’ you, your concepts or others. They are a result of letting go and releasing so you can accept or be. The struggle that is sometimes associated with acquiring these milestones are also the depth of your template surrounding the word ‘Release’.


Jot down those emotions, thoughts and excuses that were stimulated with the positive side of ‘release’. We will work with them below. Now take a deep breath in through the nose and out the mouth and one more… and one more.

The ‘struggle’ symptoms that are often associated with acquiring new goals and events are also part of your old template, part of your old conditioning that you have underlying your ability to receive all.


What would it be like for you to be able to receive without all of the baggage and past conditioning which makes up the struggle or even total denial of receiving your desires? The emotions, thoughts and excuses are the beginning…. they are what is stopping you. This is what you need to ‘release’. By giving up these, you make room for miracles to happen. This is true giving to receive… You are giving yourself space. You are creating a new you. You are re-programming what you want, not what your past template, that does not work, wants.


Homework time:

Take that list of emotions, thoughts and excuses.

Read them all out aloud.

Feel what that is.

Now read out the first statement.

Ask yourself…

What is the worst thing that could happen if I didn’t think this way?

Is there another way of thinking about this?

What would I gain if I didn’t think this way?

Whom is actually gaining out of this way of thinking?

Could I give myself permission to change this way of thinking?

What would I like to think about this instead?

Write down your new way of thinking…..


Do all the emotions, thoughts and excuses… one at a time so you create a list of your new way of thinking. This new way of thinking is now your daily affirmations. Read it daily.

To change a habit, it takes 15days.

To change a lifetime it takes 30days.


There will be obvious signs in your environment that change is happening.

Your desires will manifest as the Universe Always Says YES!

RELEASE THE NEW YOU!

 


Sharna

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RETURN

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Theme Of The Month, May, 2011

RETURN

 

 

During the month of May, 2011 the key energetic theme that spirit is backing to clarify and bring into the Planet is RETURN.

It is part of our innate desire as a soul to ‘return’, to go back to, to re-experience, to re-member, to pay back, to gain extra insights from experiences by either returning to or revisiting the environment either physically, spiritually or mentally, to regroup and learn from situations so we have more in-depth understanding, which adds to our spiritual real estate.

This extra insight usually gives us a greater ‘return’ on our initial investment. To pick up from where we left off as such but in a deeper level. This is one of the reasons why when we incarnate we often choose to ‘return’ to our familiar.

This continuity of the soul ‘returning’ or reincarnating back into our past families is played out both positively and negatively… the law of karma is played out. What we invested in the people in previous life/s we can re-inherit as such, and also what we did not invest when it was necessary can become issues to overcome or heal.

Such magnetism is ‘normal’. This is part of the universal law…

“What we put out, returns to us 10 fold.”

To ‘return’ to situations with a greater understanding will remove or replace the old karmic attractions. Similar to a computer when you put in an upgrade of the previous program. The relationship may still be primarily the same but it will operate on a clearer and cleaner foundation.

For the Month of May the primary theme will take you into re-establishing contracts with people and situations, whether they be legal, family, friends or social interactions with people. This is so we ‘return’ to our inner loyalties and responsibility within this life. It is as such a re-boot, a re-alignment of ourselves.

Eliminating what does not work for us and re-igniting our passions for what we are really here for. A letting go of the past, a shelving of what we cannot change, an accepting that the contracts are over as they have run their course in our lives.

Some of the ways ‘return’ will occur in the month of May are in the Dictionary meanings of it below.

Cheers
Sharna

Dictionary meanings of the word “RETURN”
re·turn(re-tûrn)

v. re·turned, re·turn·ing, re·turns

v. intr.

1. To go or come back, as to an earlier condition or place.

2. To revert in speech, thought, or practice.

3. To revert to a former owner.

4. To answer or respond.

v.tr.

1.  To send, put, or carry back: We return bottles to the store.

2.     a. To give or send back in reciprocation: She returned his praise. See Synonyms at reciprocate.

b. To give back to the owner: He returned her book.

c. To reflect or send back: The echo was returned by the canyon wall.

3.  To produce or yield (profit or interest) as a payment for labour, investment, or expenditure.

4.  Law

a. To submit (an official report, for example) to a judge or other person in authority.
b. To render or deliver (a writ or verdict, for example) to the proper officer or court of law.

5. To elect or re-elect, as to a legislative body.

6. Games To respond to (a partner’s lead) by leading the same suit in cards.

7. Architecture To turn away from or place at an angle to the previous line of direction.

8.     a. Sports To send back (a tennis ball, for example) to one’s opponent.

b. Football To run with (the ball) after a kick off, punt, interception, or fumble.

n.

1.     a. The act or condition of going, coming, bringing, or sending back.

b. The act of bringing or sending something back to a previous place, condition, or owner.

2.     a. Something brought or sent back.

b. returns Merchandise returned, as to a retailer by a consumer or to a wholesaler by a retailer.

c. Something that goes or comes back.

3.  A recurrence, as of a periodic occasion or event: the return of spring.

4. Something exchanged for that received; repayment.

5. A reply; a response.

6.     a. The profit made on an exchange of goods.

b. A profit or yield, as from labour or investments. Often used in the plural.

c. Output or yield per unit rather than cost per unit, as in the manufacturing of a particular product.

7.     a. A report, list, or set of statistics, especially one that is formal or official.

b. A report on the vote in an election. Often used in the plural.

c. Chiefly British An election.

8. Games A lead in certain card games that responds to the lead of one’s partner.

9. Sports In tennis and certain other sports:

a. The act of sending the ball back to one’s opponent.

b. The ball thus sent back.

10. Football

a. The act of running back the ball after a kick off, punt, interception, or fumble.

b. The yardage so gained.

11. Architecture

a. The extension of a moulding, projection, or other part at an angle (usually 90°) to the main part.

b. A part of a building set at an angle to the façade.

12.    a. A turn, bend, or similar reversal of direction, as in a stream or road.

b. A pipe or conduit for carrying something, especially water, back to its starting point.

13. The key or mechanism on a machine, such as a typewriter or computer, that positions the carriage, cursor, or printing element at the beginning of a new line.

14. Chiefly British A round trip ticket.

15. Law

a. The bringing or sending back of a writ, subpoena, or other document, generally with a short written report on it, by a sheriff or other officer to the court from which it was issued.

b. A certified report by an assessor, election officer, collector, or other official.

16. A formal tax statement on the required official form indicating taxable income, allowed deductions, exemptions, and the computed tax that is due. Also called income tax return, tax return.

adj.

1. Of, relating to, or bringing about a going or coming back to a place or situation: the return voyage; a return envelope.

2. Given, sent, or done in reciprocation or exchange: a return volley; a return invitation.

3. Performed, presented, or taking place again: a return engagement of the ballet; a return tennis match.

4. Used on or for returning: a return route.

5. Returning or affording return or recirculation: a return plumbing pipe; a return valve.

6. Relating to or being a round trip ticket.

7.     a. Reversing or changing direction.

b. Having or formed by a reversal or change in direction; returning on itself, as a bend in a road or stream.

Idiom:  in return
In repayment or reciprocation.

[Middle English retornen, from Old French retourner, from Vulgar Latin *retornre : Latin re-, re- + Latintornre, to turn in a lathe; see turn.]

re·turner n.

Return [rɪˈtɜːn]

vb

1. (intr) to come back to a former place or state
2. (tr) to give, take, or carry back; replace or restore
3. (tr) to repay or recompense, esp with something of equivalent value return the compliment
4. (Economics, Accounting & Finance / Banking & Finance) (tr) to earn or yield (profit or interest) as an income from an investment or venture
5. (intr) to come back or revert in thought or speech I’ll return to that later
6. (intr) to recur or reappear the symptoms have returned
7. to answer or reply
8. (Government, Politics & Diplomacy) (tr) to vote into office; elect
9. (Law) (tr) Law (of a jury) to deliver or render (a verdict)
10. (tr) to send back or reflect (light or sound) the canyon returned my shout
11. (tr) to submit (a report, etc.) about (someone or something) to someone in authority
12. (Group Games / Card Games) (tr) Cards to lead back (the suit led by one’s partner)
13. (General Sporting Terms) (tr) Ball games to hit, throw, or play (a ball) back
14. (Fine Arts & Visual Arts / Architecture) (tr) Architect to turn (a part, decorative moulding, etc.) away from its original direction
(Christianity / Ecclesiastical Terms)
return thanks (of Christians) to say grace before a meal

n

1. the act or an instance of coming back
2. something that is given or sent back, esp unsatisfactory merchandise returned to the maker or supplier or a theatre ticket sent back by a purchaser for resale
3. the act or an instance of putting, sending, or carrying back; replacement or restoration
4. (Economics, Accounting & Finance / Banking & Finance) (often plural) the yield, revenue, or profit accruing from an investment, transaction, or venture
5. the act or an instance of reciprocation or repayment (esp in the phrase in return for)
6. a recurrence or reappearance
7. (Economics, Accounting & Finance / Banking & Finance) an official report, esp of the financial condition of a company
8. (Economics, Accounting & Finance / Accounting & Book-keeping)
a. a form (a tax return) on which a statement concerning one’s taxable income is made
b. the statement itself
9. (Government, Politics & Diplomacy) (often plural) a statement of the votes counted at an election or poll
10. an answer or reply
11. Brit short for return ticket
12. (Cookery) NZ informal a second helping of food served at a table
13. (Fine Arts & Visual Arts / Architecture) Architect
a. a part of a building that forms an angle with the façade
b. any part of an architectural feature that forms an angle with the main part
14. (Law) Law a report by a bailiff or other officer on the outcome of a formal document such as a claim, summons, etc., issued by a court
15. (Group Games / Card Games) Cards a lead of a card in the suit that one’s partner has previously led
16. (General Sporting Terms) Ball games the act of playing or throwing a ball back
(Electronics & Computer Science / Communications & Information)
by return (of post) Brit by the next post back to the sender
many happy returns (of the day) a conventional greeting to someone on his or her birthday
the point of no return the point at which a person’s commitment is irrevocable

adj

1. of, relating to, or characterized by a return a return visit a return performance
2. denoting a second, reciprocated occasion a return match

[from Old French retorner; see re-, turn]

Overview of 2010

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2010 Themes of the Month in Review

We began the year in the theme of Embracing Delight and ended in Harvesting through Expansion.

Here are the keywords for each month and an excerpt of that month’s sharing by Francisco David Coll.

Accepting
– January
I am energy. I am a Soul. And as a Soul I move by desire. My needs are to grow and expand.

Connection – February
Connection means energy with purpose.  And when I free myself to flow smoothly, I have the power of all things because I am one with my needs and aspirations, and that is real connection.

Simplification – March
Simplification is not about what is simple; Simplification is the action of creating and Keeping It Simple Spiritual.  Simplification is my willingness, evolvement and declaration to be in the flow of spirit and abundance.

Orbit Stickman 2Sovereignty – April
My sovereignty gives me the peace that passes understanding. I empower myself and everything by my clear inner decisions. It is my inner decisions that create the bridge for the miracles of life to manifest. This is but a tiny piece of my sovereignty.

Contentment – May
Everything I have done has brought me to this place and time.  I am a creator.  Now with contentment, I will set my energy and move forward into my greatest works.  I can be assertive or gentle, loud or quiet, serious or playful; I am willing to do what is needed in order to fulfill my needs and aspirations.  I can fulfill many roles, wear many uniforms, and go many places. But no matter what it is always me . . . and always with direction and with contentment.

ChartCatalyst – June
Being a catalyst does not mean I treat everyone the same.  It means I am the same with everyone.  It is simply accepting the wisdom and energy that is mine and is being offered to me, and then passing it on.   Fulfilling my thrust and purpose is being the catalyst of my time.

Encompass – July
It is about being right even when I am wrong and knowing I am free and that I have free will to do what I need to do when I need to do it.  It is knowing that I can do it, and that everything is going to be all right.  Encompass is simply living my life 100%.  Encompass is fulfilling everything in this moment.

Recognize – August
What is me and what is not me?  This is an important question to stay vigilant about.  When I recall the simplicity of why I am here I stop indulging in thoughts and emotions that are a waste of time.  Because I know who I am and why I am here, I can easily and quickly discern my business, my service and my timing.

Back – September
My life is simple and has great ease.  I do not need to complicate it.  I am imbued with a powerful intellect to help me fulfill what I feel into realized success.  I do not need to get involved in why something cannot be done, I am part of making it get done.  It is said we are “Part of the Solution, or the Pollution.”  My eye is single … I am part of the solution, I am the solution.  My Guidance backs me.  The Universe backs me.  I back me.  That is what it means to be a builder and a creator.

3 profilesRelease – October
It is simply giving myself permission.  I give myself permission to be Happy.  I give myself permission to be Successful.  I give myself permission to be Abundant.  It all happens by making that decision.  It happens when I allow it to happen.  Every time I breathe in I am accepting abundance.  Every time I breathe out I am sharing abundance.  Breathe in, breathe out.  In, out.  Accept and release.  Fulfill and accomplish.  Breathe in, breathe out.

All – November
I am a part of all things.  There is no separation.  There is not one thing on the planet or in the Universe that I do not already have.  I am one with all things.  I do not need to run from “it.”  I do not need to fight for “it.” I do not need to strive for “it.”  I am it.

Bliss – December
I am a free agent in the universe who chose to be here and have this opportunity.  I am jumping for joy to be here because I am in-love with life.  All the things I know and all the things I am have led me to this moment.  Today is the first day of the rest of my life and I am reborn daily to learn and grow.  There is no greater opportunity than the one that I am a part of now.  Bliss is doing the best I know how, learning from experience and fulfilling my opportunity the way I came to fulfill it.  Bliss is not a place.  Bliss is a way-of-life that comes from freeing myself inside.
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